Thursday, August 27, 2009

Funeral Service for Stub

Carroll 'Stub' Luverne Veitch

Born: July 12, 1920
Died: August 22, 2009
Age: 89

SERVICES
Funeral services will be held at 10:00 A.M. on Thursday, August 27, 2009 at the Warner Chapel in Spencer

OFFICIATING
Rev. Chuck Kellogg
Rev. Tonna Parsons

CASKET BEARERS
Kendall Mead - Jay Prather- Bud Myers - Steve Hurst
R.Dean Peterson - John Blair - Ron Sears - Jim Maxson

HONORARY CASKET BEARERS
Bill Peterson - Neal Drefke - Gene Merrill - Jerry Roberts
Everett Amis - Virgil Prather - Lane Kunath - John Hatten - David Gustin

MUSIC
"The Old Rugged Cross"
"How Great Thou Art"
By Donna Graham
Organist - Verlie Amis
Special Saw Music
"Amazing Grace" By Bob Leach

INTERMENT
Fanny Fern Cemetery
Rural Webb, Iowa

Thanks to everyone involved with the service. It was a beautiful memorial to a wonderful man.

We had over 20 antique cars from Grandpa's car club in the procession from the funeral home to the cemetery. It was quite a tribute to the number of friends he has.

If anyone has any information about the Fanny Fern Cemetery please get a hold of me.

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Tribute Slideshow for Stub Veitch



Photos from this slide show can be found at:
http://picasaweb.google.com/stub.veitch
A version of this slide show was shown at Grandpa's visitation and funeral.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Grandpa's Obituary

Carroll 'Stub' Luverne Veitch
July 12, 1920 - August 22, 2009

Carroll “Stub” Luverne Veitch, the son of George Leslie and Vennetta Eldora Mitchell Veitch, was born July 12, 1920 in Greenville, IA. His childhood years were spent in Greenville where he received his early education and graduated from the Greenville High School in 1937.

In 1940, Carroll moved to San Diego where he worked at an aircraft factory. He married Margaret Ingersoll on March 8, 1943. They lived in San Diego until moving back to Greenville in 1947 where he worked at a dairy. Stub served with the Iowa National Guard from 1949 to 1952. In 1950, they moved to Clinton, Iowa where Carroll worked in a dairy and attended Barber School. He eventually owned a shop in Clinton, Northwood, Ayrshire and then Spencer in 1962 where he was in partnership with Mike Collins. On February 3, 1962, Carroll married Helen Ellis in Jackson, MN. In 1973, he went to work for SMU until retiring in 1983. Carroll was a member of the Grace United Methodist Church, Eagles Lodge and the Highland Masonic Lodge #487 of Ruthven, Iowa.

In his spare time, Carroll enjoyed restoring antique cars, golfing, fishing and traveling state side and abroad.

Carroll passed away peacefully at his home on Saturday, August 22, 2009, at the age of 89. He is preceded in death by his parents, his first wife, Margaret, his second wife, Helen, his daughter, Ruth Larsen, his step-son, Terry Ellis and a brother, Donald Veitch.
Left to cherish his memory, daughter, Merrie Olsen and her husband, Lawrence; son-in-law, Joseph Larsen; step-daughter, Kathleen Penkert and husband, Dan; grandchildren: Jonathan Olsen and wife, Jill, Heather Balderson and husband, Ken, Joseph Larsen, Jr. and wife, Dee, Jennifer Larsen and friend, Ron Rattie; great grandchildren: Chloe Larsen, Tanner DeHaai, Hunter DeHaai, Cameron Balderson, Kaitlin Balderson, Gabrielle Balderson and Jasmine Balderson; brother, Terry Veitch and wife, Nira ; 2 sisters: Marjean Gulizia and Janet Leach and her husband, Bob; other relatives and many friends.

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Grandpa "Stub" Veitch, Rest In Peace

My Grandfather passed away peacefully in his sleep last night.

Jill & I got arrived in Spencer about 9:00 p.m. last night and although grandpa had been unresponsive since 1:00 p.m. the night before, Jill & I spent some time with him talking to him. Jill and Mom were sitting in with him just before 12:30 when his breathing changed and Jill recognized it as a final stage so they called us all into the room. He was surrounded by his sister, daughter, two sons in law and Jill & I. I prayed with the family that God would welcome him home and that he would join his two wives, daughter and brother who had gone on before him. Before we were done praying he was gone.

Grandpa enjoyed his last meal Thursday evening. Mom was sitting with him and asked him if he would like a chocolate shake. He did not respond so Mom just sat with him. A half hour later Grandpa Stub asked if Joe was back with that shake yet. Mom said "Not quite yet" and quickly sent Uncle Joe to McDonalds for that chocolate shake. Mom had to spoon feed the shake to Grandpa and he joked that he had feed her that when when she was a child. Grandpa kept saying that the shake was "So Good". He asked "How did you know I wanted a chocolate shake?" Mom said, " Dad I know you. Every time we went to McDonalds you got a chocolate shake". As a memorial many of the family members went out for chocolate shakes the day after the funeral.

Grandpa had some unresolved family strife that in the weeks before his death both he and the other folks involved made moves to resolve the problem. One of the last things he said was to ask mom to tell them that he loved them. After a long pause he added "And Buddy too, their cat". He said that he didn't want to die mad at anyone. Stub got his name because he was quite short, but it might as well have been because he was stubborn. If he could forgive and put the situation behind him we all can. Some other family members still may have some issues but Grandpa forgave so everyone else needs to as well. I hope that this is the first step to reconciliation.

The last time that he spoke he told my mother that he could see lots of people. When she asked him who he was seeing he listed his daughter, parents, wives and others who have already passed away. She asked him if he was dreaming. He said that he was not. I know that he is now in heaven in the Lord's presence enjoying the company of these family members. After mentioning the family members that he was seeing he started reciting the Lord's Prayer. He would take long pauses and Mom would consider giving him the next word but he made it all of the way through. When he was done praying he told Mom that he loved her. She told him she loved him. He fell into a deep sleep and never spoke again. He died almost exactly 24 hours later.

He fought this cancer for a long time, but miraculously he was only sick for a week. I thank God that he had a full life until the end and that he did not have to suffer. He did not have to resort to heavy medications for pain relief and was able to stay in his home until the end. On the Saturday prior to his death he was able to enjoy a picnic with his car club and talk with many friends. His health started taking a steep decline on Monday. He could have really suffered with the bone cancer but God was merciful and he did not have to go though that.

Please pray with me in thanking the Lord for this wonderful man who was my beloved grandfather. He will be missed so also pray for our family as we get through this coming week and as we adjust to our lives without him.